The Love Advice You Need After Finding Your Forever Person, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

Remember that not every date night needs to be filled with wild adventures. When you’re with the right person, you should be able to spend the entire day on the couch, just talking and watching television, and you’ll have a good time. Make sure you don’t take those mundane moments for granted.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Remember that your independence doesn’t have to be compromised now that you’re one half of a couple. You can still have your own hobbies. You can still have your own friends. You can still have your own life, as long as it overlaps enough with your person’s life.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Remember that you are part of a team now. Instead of thinking about what would be best for you, you have to think about what would be best for the both of you. That means consulting your partner before making any big decisions. Don’t leave them in the dark. Don’t make them feel like they’re being shut out.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Remember that it is unhealthy to spend too much time with your person. You should both have your own, unique lives. You shouldn’t have a breakdown every time you spend more than a few hours apart. You should trust each other enough to do certain things separately.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Remember that your person already loves you for who you are inside. You don’t have to spend hours getting ready to see them. You don’t have to be worried about what they will think of you in sweatpants. You know what they’ll think? That you still look gorgeous.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

Remember that you are allowed to talk to your partner. You don’t have to guess what is on their mind. You don’t have to analyze what they say and form assumptions. You can ask them questions. You sit down and have a mature conversation with them to ease your worries. Guessing will only make your paranoia worse.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Remember that relationships aren’t meant to decline after the puppy love fades away. You should still have standards. You should still refuse to accept poor treatment. Just because you have been together for a while doesn’t give your person permission to slack with their effort.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Remember that something you say in anger can never be taken back. Instead of resorting to screaming when you feel misunderstood, try to talk things out. Try your best to stay calm and listen to their side of the story. Don’t let one stupid argument lead to the end of your relationship.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Remember that sex isn’t the only form of affection that exists. Your person might need you to hold their hand. To kiss their cheek. To listen to them talk about their day. Don’t forget to remind them you love them outside of the bedroom.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Remember that your person is meant to be one of your main priorities. You have to create a balance between your career and your love life, so that your person never feels neglected. Your job is important, but sometimes it’s more important to take a day off or turn down overtime in order to spend time with your love.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

Remember that everyone shows affection in different ways. Everyone has different love languages. So even though your partner might not say those three little words as often as you do, that doesn’t mean you are the one who cares more.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Remember that your friends should never be pushed aside after you enter a relationship. They were there for you when you were single and you should be there for them now that you’re committed. Don’t distance yourself from them because you have better things to do. Make time for them. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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