Don’t Date Someone Who Makes You Hate Yourself Even More

Girl who hates herself
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Don’t date someone who makes you feel ugly when you are walking around in sweatpants because you didn’t put enough effort into your appearance. Don’t date someone who even makes you feel ugly after you spent hours on your hair and makeup because you still aren’t as pretty as those girls that he works with or as his favorite celebrities. Don’t date someone who makes you wonder whether you need bigger boobs or a smaller waist in order to be considered attractive.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you are wasting your life away. Someone who puts you down whenever you get excited about your job, because they don’t respect what you do for a living. Someone who acts like they are better than you just because they make more money than you or are in a better field than you are.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you are annoying, like spending time with you requires effort, like you are hard to love. Don’t date someone who rolls their eyes when you talk. Someone who makes fun of you with their friends. Someone who makes you feel stupid for watching certain shows and listening to certain songs. Someone who talks about you like you aren’t there.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you aren’t funny because they make a face whenever you tell a joke instead of laughing. Don’t date someone who tells you to shut up every time that you sing because they hate the sound of your voice. Don’t date someone who makes you feel afraid to be yourself.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel insecure because they flirt with your friends. Because they point out all of the ways that you should change. Because they compliment other girls who look nothing like you.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you aren’t going to the gym enough. Like you aren’t bringing home enough money. Like you aren’t having sex with them enough. Like you aren’t being a good enough girlfriend.

Don’t date someone who you are afraid to eat a hamburger in front of because you are worried they will call you fat. Don’t date someone who you hesitate to undress around because you feel like they are examining every flaw of your naked body.

Don’t date someone who makes you feel even more insecure than you were before you met. Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you aren’t good enough for them. Don’t date someone who makes you feel like you are lucky that they are staying around because they could have anyone that they wanted.

Don’t date someone who makes you question your worth. Don’t date someone who makes you hate yourself even more.

Only date someone who makes you feel pretty. Someone you are comfortable around, whether you are wearing a little black dress or a neon green face mask. Someone who sees your beauty and never stops telling you how perfect you are. TC mark

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