The Bullshit You Should Stop Letting Him Get Away With, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

Stop letting him ignore your texts and go weeks without talking to you. I know you like your freedom. I know you like to come across as independent and carefree. But you deserve someone who actually gives a shit. Someone who actually puts in effort. Stop letting him treat you like an option.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Stop believing his excuses about why he doesn’t want a relationship. It doesn’t matter if his ex treated him like crap. It doesn’t matter if he has a lot on his plate concerning work. If he really liked you, then he would agree to kiss those other girls goodbye and start an official, monogamous relationship with you. Don’t believe otherwise.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Stop accepting his mixed signals as an average part of dating. He shouldn’t aim to confuse you. He should tell you how he feels — and you shouldn’t be afraid to ask him how he feels. You should be open and honest with each other. Stop letting him play games.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Stop putting in 100% of the effort when he barely puts in 1%. He should be planning dates. He should be surprising you with little romantic gifts. You shouldn’t be trying your hardest to impress him when he couldn’t care less about your opinion. You should act as equals.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Stop letting him use you for sex. I know that his lips taste delicious. I know that you love the way his hands feel as they skim your body. But you want something more. His body isn’t enough. So stop giving him orgasms when he’s refusing to give you a relationship.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

Stop running to him whenever he needs you — even though he’s never there for you. One-sided love isn’t going to cut it. If he can never hang out when you need him, then you shouldn’t rearrange your entire schedule or cancel plans with friends, just so you can see him. If he doesn’t make time for you, don’t make time for him.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Stop letting him get away with playing the field. If you want a real relationship, you shouldn’t stand by while he flirts with every other girl in his life. Either ask him to commit or walk away, because if he thinks you’re okay with his player persona, you’re going to be crying yourself to sleep every night.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Don’t let him get away with inviting you over at the last second every damn time he wants to see you. Even though you can be spontaneous too, you know you deserve a head’s up. You need time to get ready, to mentally and physically prepare. Don’t let him use you as a backup plan when he’s bored.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Don’t let him pressure you into doing anything that you’re uncomfortable with. Even though you’re normally pretty easygoing about sex and your body, that doesn’t mean you have to agree to any and all suggestions he has. If you want to say no, say no. Put him in his place.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Stop letting him get away with being lazy. Even though you’re capable of taking care of yourself, that doesn’t mean you should be stuck doing everything, from washing the dishes to paying for every date. He should lend a hand. Help out. Do his fair share.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

Stop letting him put off important events. If he’s serious about staying with you, then he would introduce you to his parents. He would want to meet your friends. He would want you to become a permanent part of his life.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Stop letting him treat you like the love of his life in private, and then act like you mean nothing to him when you’re around crowds. If he really cared about you, then he would hold your hand in public. Kiss you in front of strangers. Make it clear that you’re the only girl in his life. TC mark 

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