Have sex with someone that respects your body and listens when you tell them no. Someone that doesn’t pressure you into doing anything that you’re uncomfortable with.
Have sex with someone that listens. Someone that pays attention to what kind of touches you like and don’t like. Someone that doesn’t take long to learn how to successfully get you off.
Have sex with someone that makes you feel beautiful. Someone that you can kiss without worrying about how wide your stomach is or how much hair is below your waist.
Have sex with someone that you can laugh with. Someone that smiles when your teeth clash or your noses bump instead of making you feel weird about it.
Have sex with someone that makes an effort to set the mood. Someone that makes the bed and lights candles and plays seductive music, because they know that it will make you swoon.
Have sex with someone that cares about your experience as much as their own. Someone that will go down on you, use toys, or do whatever else it takes to make sure that you have an orgasm that’s just as strong as the one they’re about to have.
Have sex with someone that you’re comfortable turning down when you’re not in the mood. Someone that won’t make you feel guilty for going to sleep early.
Have sex with the someone that looks you in the eyes and caresses your cheeks instead of staring over your shoulder the entire time so the act doesn’t feel as personal, as intimate.
Have sex with someone that has a beautiful mind. Someone that can turn you on, just by using their words, just by being their goofy self.
Have sex with someone that doesn’t rush you. Someone that doesn’t mind if it takes six months until you’re ready for sex. Someone that doesn’t mind if it takes you thirty minutes to climax.
Have sex with someone that realizes foreplay is just as important as sex itself. Someone that gives you enough attention before your clothing comes off. Someone that wants you to feel amazing, inside and out.
Have sex with someone that would never take advantage of you. Someone that hesitates to kiss you when you’re wasted. Someone that doesn’t care if you’re in the middle of lovemaking when you ask them to stop, because they understand that consent can be given and taken away at any time.
Have sex with someone that gives as often as they receive. Someone that doesn’t mind putting in the work to make your body explode with pleasure — even if they don’t get anything out of it.
Have sex with someone that you trust. Someone that could pin you down or put you in handcuffs and you wouldn’t feel scared, because you know that they wouldn’t push you too far without asking for permission.
Have sex with someone that is just as happy to lounge on the couch with you in your fuzzy socks and thick pajamas as they are to roll around naked with you.