13 Women Admit Whether They Prefer Oral Sex Or Full-On Penetration

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1. “Oooh, I can’t decide. Maybe I’m greedy. I like a combination of the two. I usually have him go down on me as foreplay, orgasm from that, and then I’ll ride him. That way, I’m super wet, and nothing hurts. And if I don’t orgasm during penetration, it’s no big deal, because I already came earlier.” — Molly, 27

2. “If I’m being honest, I actually hate oral. I get all self-conscious about the way I smell and taste down there. I don’t like having a guy’s nose so close to my privates. So I suppose I prefer penetrative sex.” — Sharon, 20

3. “P in V sex, for sure. I mean, I’m in love. I’d rather look my fiancé in the eyes than look down at the top of his head. I like how intimate sex feels, how close we can get physically and emotionally.”  — Olga, 26

4. “Before I met my current boyfriend, I definitely preferred oral, because it was the only time when things were all about me. During sex, guys wouldn’t pay attention to my clit or my nipples or any of those pleasure points. But now I have a boyfriend that knows what to do (which involves a lot more than thrusting), so I think I prefer penetration.” — Amy, 29

5. “I actually like anal the best. And it’s not because it’s taboo or naughty or any of that. I just like being touched back there. Feels good physically for me.” — Elaine, 25

6. “I like it all. I even like when he uses his hands instead of his tongue or dick and makes me orgasm that way. That makes me sound like a high school girl, but I’m in my 30s and it gets me off every time.” — Dana, 32

7. “Liked oral better with my ex. Like sex better with the guy I’m with now. They had different skill sets. Different penis and tongue sizes. Different enthusiasm levels.” — Robin, 22

8. “I only orgasm from oral, so… There’s your answer.” — Cassidy, 23

9. “Depends on my mood, but I usually prefer sex. He still needs to touch my clit to make me orgasm, but I like being filled up. And having him grab my hair and tower over me. So sexy.” — Ryan, 23

10. “Oral all the way. I like giving it as much as receiving it. His cum is delicious and, according to him, my cunt is just as tasty.” — Annie, 28

11. “I think I like penetrative sex better. It’s much easier for me to cum when he goes down on me, but an orgasm isn’t everything. Even if I don’t finish during sex, I enjoy myself. I enjoy my boyfriend. I hate when guys get all mopey when they can’t get me to finish. Enjoy the journey, man. I do.” — Carol, 21

12. “I’d never admit this to my boyfriend, but I don’t really… like sex. I feel like it’s overrated. While it’s happening, I’m usually thinking about how I could be getting work done or at least catching up on my shows. It feels like a waste of time sometimes.” — Andrea, 22

13. “Oral. I’m lucky if I get an orgasm half of the time when he sticks it in me. I usually have to end up masturbating after I squeeze his semen out of me.” — Betsy, 24 Thought Catalog Logo Mark 

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