What You’ve Been Doing Wrong In Bed, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You don’t give your partner enough credit. You always want sex to be an adventure. If you’re not doing it in public or using handcuffs, you get bored–and that shouldn’t be the case. You should learn to appreciate the simple things, like the way your partner runs their hands over your skin and kisses your neck. Vanilla sex can be hot when the time is right.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You’re patient, which is why you don’t mind it when foreplay lasts for an hour. Of course, your partner might not be thrilled with how long they have to wait to get laid. So, every once in a while, give your partner a break by having a quickie. It’ll put a little bit of excitement back into your sex life.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You need to stop lying to yourself (and to your partners) about what sex means. You can’t act like it’s meaningless, even though you have deep feelings for them. And you can’t act like you have feelings for them, and then delete their number from your phone right after you have sex. Be honest with them from the start. Don’t be afraid of the truth.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You care too much about your partner’s feelings. It’s great that you want them to be happy. But you can’t forget about your own pleasure. If you don’t like something, speak up. If you keep quiet, then sex is never going to change. Let yourself be bossy.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Your partner doesn’t mind sitting back and relaxing while you do all of the work, but that doesn’t mean you should always get on top. Let them take control for a change. Instead of being the dominant one, giving out orders, be submissive. Let them do whatever they want to you while you just go with the flow.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You don’t really like trying new things. You’re used to having sex in a bed, which is why you want to continue having sex in a bed. But sex isn’t meant to stay the same. You need to try doing it somewhere new. If fucking in a public place would make you uncomfortable, at least try doing it on the couch or in the shower.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You’re way too self-conscious in the bedroom. But guess what? You look good naked. And your partner thinks you look good naked. So what is there to be embarrassed about? If you let go of your insecurities, it’ll be a lot easier for you to relax during sex. So stop nitpicking and remember that you’re beautiful.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You need to watch what you say during sex, because you don’t want to make your partner uncomfortable. You might think calling them names in bed is sexy, but they might find it insulting. And you might think asking for a threesome is harmless, but it could drastically lower their self-esteem. So think before you speak.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You need to focus less on trying to orgasm and more on enjoying the moment. When you put all of your energy into making yourself cum, it’s like you’re in another world. So stop fantasizing. Pay attention to your partner. Remember, you’re not masturbating. There’s another person in the room with you, so give them the attention they deserve.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You’re consistent, but that also means you’re predictable. Your partner knows what position you’re going to put them in before you even do it. That’s why you have to be open to new ideas. You don’t have to head to a sex shop and stock up on toys. Just try some new positions for a change.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

Get on top for once. Even if you get tired after five minutes of doing all the work, at least you gave it a shot. Your partner will appreciate it, because even though they act like they’re fine being in control, they secretly wish you would take the reins every once in a while. It’s only fair.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Sex actually means something to you. That’s why you like intimate gestures, like kissing on the lips and staring into your partner’s eyes. But you need to let loose every once in a while. Try having rough sex for a change. Intercourse can be intimate and adventurous at the same time, you know. So go wild! Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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