If You Want To Have A Super Hot Threesome, Follow These 15 Tips

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1. First things first, you have to ask your partner if they’d be okay with the idea. If you can’t even utter the word “threesome” in front of them, then you’re obviously not comfortable enough to have one.

2. Even if you both agree to the idea, start out small to avoid ruining your relationship. Put on a porno so you can watch another person turn your partner on. If a simple video sparks jealousy, then you need to take the threesome idea off the table.

3. If you want to experiment with someone of the same sex, but you don’t want your partner to lay a finger on that person, then just have your partner watch. It’ll be less of a threesome and more of a voyeuristic experience.

4. If you don’t mind the entire world knowing you’re a kinky couple looking for a threesome, then the easiest way for you to find a third party is by searching through Tinder. Create an account that explicitly states what you’re looking for, so only interested singles will swipe right.

5. One of the reasons why Tinder is such a good idea is because it’ll introduce you to someone new. The worst thing you can do is have a threesome with one of your friends. It’ll make things awkward for everyone involved.

6. Before you go through with your kinky little adventure, set boundaries with your partner. Is kissing okay? Is penetration okay? Is oral okay? You need to talk about this in detail, so you don’t end up crossing a line.

7. When the third party shows up, fill them in on the boundaries you’ve already set with your partner. Then see if they have any rules of their own that they’d like to add.

8. Watch what you say. If you give the stranger the same exact compliments that you usually give you partner, it might upset them. They don’t want to feel replaceable.

9. I know it’s exciting to sleep with someone new, but you should try to give your partner just as much attention as you give to the stranger. You don’t want your partner to feel ugly or inadequate.

10. If the other two aren’t paying you any attention, feel free to masturbate. You basically have live action porn going on in front of you, so you might as well enjoy it.

11. Multitask. If you’re locking lips with one person, let your hand trail up the other person’s leg. Give as much pleasure as you can at a time.

12. If your partner is willing to have a threesome with the sex of your choosing, then you should be willing to return the favor one day in the future. It’s only fair.

13. Use condoms. You don’t want to end up with an STD, do you?

14. If, at any point, you feel uncomfortable, then you can put an end to the entire thing. Consent can be given and taken away at any time. It’s nothing to feel bad about.

15. When all is said and done, remind your partner that sex with them is always just as great as sex with two people at once. Remind them that you love them. Remind them that they’re enough for you. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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