24 Lap Dance Techniques That’ll Make You Look Sexier Than A Stripper

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Unsplash, Viliman Viliman

1. Performing a strip tease or a lap dance will probably feel awkward at first, so you should start by picking a song that empowers you. Something that’ll make you feel sexy the second you hear it.

2. Make sure you wear clothing that’s cute, but easy for you to step out of. You want to shimmy out of your skirt and top. You don’t want to get caught in your jeans and have to peel them off of your legs.

3. Bring a chair into the bedroom for your man to sit down on. You don’t want him to be sitting on the edge of the bed, because it’ll be hard for you to perform most of your moves.

4. If you want to amp up the sexiness, handcuff him to that chair. Then he won’t be able to touch the dancer, no matter how badly he wants to.

5. If you have a dimmer switch, lower the lights. Otherwise, you could try using candles to give the room a sultry glow.

6. It’s finally time to perform. Start by walking towards him as seductively as you can, placing your hands on the chair back (right above his shoulders), and leaning forward so he gets an amazing view of your cleavage.

7. If you’re super comfortable with him, you can also try getting on all fours and crawling towards that chair instead (preferably with a whip in your mouth).

8. When you reach him, grab his knees and thrust his legs apart, so you can stand in the center of them.

9. When you’re close to him, cross your arms over your stomach and lift off your shirt as slowly as you can. Then take your bra off in the same seductively slow way.

10. Grab your tits with your hands and start massaging them. Touch them in all the ways he wishes he was touching them.

11. If you want to use props, you could grab an ice cube and rub it across your chest until you’re dripping wet. Or you could use a whip to lightly hit him across his body.

12. Now is the perfect time to straddle him, so you can grind up against his cock while sticking your breasts in his face. Make sure your nipples get close enough to tease him, but not close enough to actually touch him.

13. Of course, you don’t have to avoid touching him altogether. Try nibbling on his earlobe or kissing his neck. Make him as hard as you can with as few movements as you can.

14. If he’s wearing a tie, then you can remove it. You can even start to unbutton his shirt, so you can lick down his chest.

15. Now it’s time to turn around. Take a few steps away, so he gets an amazing view of your ass, and move your hips to the beat of the music that’s playing.

16. When you’re ready, start sliding down your skirt. Your ass should be facing him, but feel free to turn your head so you can watch his reaction and give him a sexy smile.

17. While you’re still in that position, try touching your butt, slapping it, or spreading it open. Do whatever you know will turn him on the most.

18. It’s up to you whether you keep on your thong or remove that, as well. If you choose to take it off, you can sling it over your partner’s shoulder when you walk back to him.

19. However, this time, you shouldn’t straddle him. Instead, place your butt up against his crotch and start moving those hips, like you’re riding him in he reverse cowgirl position.

20. While you’re moving in between his legs, you should keep your hands on his thighs and dig your nails in.

21. Instead of moving your hips, you could also try bouncing your butt up and down on top of him, grazing his dick each time.

22. If it helps, you can place a mirror behind him, so you can see what you’re doing while you’re doing it. That way, you won’t be wondering how ridiculous you look the entire time.

23. If you feel weird walking around completely naked, then you can hide lingerie beneath your top layer of clothing. He’ll be super excited to see it on you, even if it means he doesn’t get to see your naked tits.

24. The point of the strip tease is to make him excited for sex, so you might as well unzip his jeans once the song ends. Then you can hop on top of him and ride him until he cums. TC mark

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