19 Kinky Things To Experiment With If You Want Stronger Orgasms

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1. Handcuffs. Secure your wrists together, so your partner is forced to do all the work. Or put them on your partner and enjoy the feeling of utter domination.

2. Flogger. If you like getting spanked, then you might as well take it up a notch and hand your partner a flogger. Some pain feels more like pleasure.

3. Whipped cream. Spray it onto your nipples and ask your partner to lick it off of you as slowly as they can.

4. Feathers. Sex doesn’t have to be rough in order for it to feel good. Try the other end of the spectrum and tickle your partner’s body with a soft feather.

5. Sex dice. All you have to do is roll these naughty dice to figure out where you should kiss, lick, or spank your partner.

6. Leash and collar. This will be a step up from handcuffs, because it’ll allow you to pull your partner around the room and stick them in whatever position you’d like.

7. Vibrators. These come in dozens of different shapes and sizes, and they’re all perfect for stimulating nipples and vaginas.

8. Hot wax. Just make sure you buy the type of candles that are meant to be used during sex. If you use whatever you find around the house, you’ll end up getting burnt.

9. Vibrating panties. Instead of buying a regular vibrator, which can only be used in the bedroom, try buying underwear with a vibrator built-in. Then give your partner the remote control, so they can make you orgasm while you’re out at dinner.

10. Anal beads. If you like anal sex, then you might as well see what it feels like to have these beads pulled through your body.

11. Cock ring. Put one of these around the base of a man’s penis and it’ll strengthen his erection. It’s simple.

12. Butt plugs. They can help you prepare for anal sex hours before the activity actually begins.

13. Blindfold. Buy one or create a makeshift one out of a scarf or tie. Then let your partner do whatever the hell they want to do to you while your sight is completely cut off.

14. Strap-on. Role reversal might be a bigger turn-on than either of you think. It’ll give you a chance to see sex from their point of view for a change.

15. Nipple clamps. Even if you only test them out for five seconds and then throw them to the side, at least you’ll know what all the hype is about.

16. Ben Wa balls. These are about the size of marbles and are meant to be inserted inside of the vagina to increase stimulation.

17. Body paint. Show off your artistic side by decorating each other’s bodies before you make love. Just don’t make a mess out of your sheets.

18. Double sided dildo. You can either use this to penetrate two of your own holes at once, or you can use one end while you let your partner use the other.

19Sex swing. This one is a little pricey, but it’ll be worth it. It’ll help you put yourself into plenty of new positions and discover new angles of penetration that’ll give you ridiculously intense orgasms. TC mark

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