1. Say her name. She wants to know that your focus is on her and only her. That you’re not fantasizing about the girl next door or some big-breasted porn star. So say her name. Again and again and again.
2. Rub her clit. Most women can’t come from penetration alone, so if you want to make her orgasm, you have to give her clitoris some attention. Get into a position that’ll make it easier for you to reach a hand (or a vibrator) over that sweet spot.
3. Kiss her on her lips, on her neck, on her collarbone, and on any other body part that you can reach while you’re inside of her.
4. Touch her hair. If she prefers gentle sex, then stroke her hair while you slowly rock back and forth. If she wants it rough, pull her hair while you’re ramming into her.
5. Compliment her in the form of dirty talk. Tell her she has the most beautiful pussy you’ve ever seen. Tell her that the sound of her voice gets you hard. Tell her you’ve been staring at her tight ass all day, waiting to rip her pants off of her. Make her feel flawless.
6. Roleplay. If you can fake a British accent, then go for it. It’ll instantly make you appear ten times hotter.
7. Listen to her moans. You won’t have to ask her, “Does this feel good for you?” over and over again if you just pay attention. Her moans will tell you exactly what she likes and dislikes.
8. Make your own decisions. Instead of constantly asking her what she wants, pick new positions and use new moves. She doesn’t want to be in charge all the time.
9. Pay attention to her pleasure points. Maybe that means sucking on her nipples. Maybe that means playing with her ass. Maybe that means nibbling on her earlobe. Every woman is different.
10. Look her in the eyes. It’ll create a new level of intimacy between the two of you.
11. Then make a show out of looking at her body. Take her tits in your hands and act like they’re the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen.
12. Switch positions every few minutes, for the sake of her sanity. Even if she’s capable of wrapping her legs around your neck, she probably won’t be comfortable if she has to stay in that position for too long.
13. Use different combo moves. One minute, you can thrust while playing with her clit. Then you can stop thrusting and focus solely on playing with her clit. Then you can leave her clit alone and go back to thrusting.
14. Use sex toys (with her permission). It might be easier for her to orgasm if she’s getting spanked on the ass with a paddle.
15. If she’s still half-dressed by the time you’re inside of her, take off her clothes. Make it clear that you want to get a good look at every part of her gorgeous body.
16. Take off your clothes. There’s nothing sexier than watching a man rip off his own shirt in the middle of thrusting.
17. Bite her lip. Nibble on her neck. Be a little rough to show her how badly you want her.
18. Pin her arms over her head, so she feels dominated. If you have a pair of fuzzy handcuffs in the room, put them to good use.
19. Whisper in her ear. It doesn’t really matter what you say, because the sound alone will give her chills.
20. Dig your nails into her waist while you’re thrusting. Women enjoy that sensation as much as men do.
21. Moan more often. She wants to know that you’re enjoying the sex as much as she is, so don’t hesitate to get a little loud.
22. Act confident, even if you’re not feeling your sexiest. Don’t say anything negative about your body (and definitely don’t say anything negative about her body).
23. Remove her bra without fumbling with the clasp for too long. If you don’t think you can get it open, fuck her without removing her bra at all.
24. Even if she doesn’t like it when you play with her “second hole,” you can still spank her ass or squeeze it while you’re giving it to her Doggie Style.
25. Orgasm. It doesn’t matter if you come first, as long as you’re willing to go down on her and finish the job before falling asleep beside her.
26. If you two have already said those three little words, use them while you’re fucking. It’ll make even the most raw, animalistic sex feel sweet and tender.