1. Handcuff your wrists together in front of you, so you can still reach down and play with your clit as your partner thrusts into you.

2. Handcuff your wrists together in back of you, so your partner can grab the chain and control your arms during Doggie Style. Just make sure you have a pillow in front of you, so if your head ends up crashing onto the bed, you’ll have something soft to lean against.

3. Handcuff your wrist to your partner’s wrist and see what kind of new positions you can come up with. You’ll be restricted, so it’ll be a fun little challenge.

4. Move out of the bedroom. Try handcuffing yourself to the railing of your staircase, and then have hot sex on the steps. Or handcuff your partner to a low-hanging tree branch and have sex in the park.

5. Handcuff your partner to a sturdy chair, and then do a striptease for him from across the room. He’ll be dying to touch you, but he won’t be able to move.

6. Roleplay. Instead of breaking out the handcuffs without any context, pretend to be a dirty cop or a horny criminal.

7. You don’t actually have to use the handcuffs at all. Just place them on your nightstand and use them as a sexy little “threat.” If your partner doesn’t do as you wish, then they’ll get the handcuffs as a punishment.

8. Handcuffs aren’t always enough. Try placing a blindfold over your partner’s eyes as well, so you have even more control over them. Then you can kiss them all over their body, but they won’t see it coming.

9. Instead of handcuffing your wrists together, have your partner handcuff you to the bedpost. You can even buy a few extra pairs of handcuffs so you can secure both of your wrists, and both of your ankles, as well.

10. Hate it when your man pushes your head down during oral? Snap handcuffs onto him, so he has absolutely no control over how deeply you take him in your mouth.

11. Hold off on having sex, and use the handcuffs as foreplay. Secure your partner to the bed and then run a feather or a vibrator over their skin. Do whatever the hell you want to them while you watch them squirm.

12. Handcuff him to the bathroom sink, so he can watch you seductively shower in front of him. You’ll be putting on your own personal peep show.

13. Handcuff one of your wrists to his belt buckle, so your hand is in the perfect position for stroking his cock. See how hard you can make him through his jeans.

14. Handcuff your partner to the fridge, so that you’re easily able to grab whipped cream, ice cream, and chocolate to cover his body with.

15. Handcuff your partner, push them onto their knees, and order them to use their tongue to make you orgasm. Make sure you explain that the cuffs won’t be coming off until you get off.