It’s Clear You’re With Your Soulmate If These 16 Things Happen During Cuddle Sessions

Gabi E. Mulder
Gabi E. Mulder

1. Whether you’re in bed or sprawled out on the couch, you know exactly how to position yourself to create maximum comfort for the both of you.

2. You don’t squirm away if he rests his hands on your boob, because you know he isn’t trying to initiate sex. He’s just happiest when he has his hands against your bare skin.

3. In fact, you’re able to press your completely naked body against him without worrying about him turning things sexual. It doesn’t mean you aren’t attracted to each other anymore. It just means you’ve seen each other’s bodies so many times that you’re completely comfortable being completely exposed.

4. If you actually are in the mood to initiate sex, you don’t have to say a word. All you have to do is wiggle your butt a bit and he’ll know what to do. You’re on the same wavelength.

5. If you’re feeling lazy, you won’t have to move at all. You’ll be able to have sex in your cuddling position, with him acting as the big spoon and you as the little spoon. In fact, it’s the perfect position, because it makes it easy for him to reach around and rub your clit.

6. After sex, you can go right back to cuddling, like nothing has changed. You’re still in the mood to be close.

7. When you’re cuddling, you can talk nonsense with him. You can ask him hypotheticals questions about the end of the world, exchange answers to gross “would you rather” questions, and tell him about the shit posts you saw on Tumblr.

8. If your feet are cold, you’ll find a way to wedge them under his legs. He won’t complain about it, because he’s used to the feel of your freezing skin by now.

9. He kisses you in innocent places, like on your forehead and the back of your hand. He doesn’t expect anything in return.

10. He teases you about hogging the blankets and creeping onto his side of the bed, but you know they’re empty complaints. If you weren’t there, he’d miss it.

11. You fall asleep the fastest when you’re resting your head on his chest. He makes you feel so safe, so relaxed, so wanted. You never get that type of deep sleep when you’re alone.

12. Sometimes, his arm or his leg will fall asleep, but he won’t move, because of how much he loves you. It’s like having a sleeping puppy on his lap. Disturbing you is unthinkable.

13. He never gets embarrassed about unexpected boners. You either laugh it off, ignore it, or turn around and kiss him.

14. He lets you be the big spoon every once in a while. He likes to feel your arms around him just as much as he loves to wrap his arms around you.

15. When the cuddling session is over, and you have to get on with your day, you feel like a part of your heart is missing. It sounds mushy and cliche, especially since you’re such an independent woman, but you hate being far away from him.

16. When you’re cuddling with him, you feel like you’re exactly where you want to be. Not just for now. For the rest of your life. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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