Create something cool together.
It could be anything: a small project, a creative meal, an event….
Not only do you get to share a nice experience creating something together – you’re also left with an end product to remind you of it.
11. Sribatsa Pathy
Many relationships hacks are mentioned above but their implementation depends on the stage the relationship is in. I will try to suggest the hacks which i feel are most pertinent for a given stage :
While the relationship is born – Be honest, starting a relationship on lies is the worst thing you can do. Small and cute lies are allowed given you tell the truth shortly after.
In its nascent stage – Compliment him/her. See, clearly the person you want to be in a relationship with would have a lot of other contacts. The thing that will set you apart will be, to serve as a pair of eyes which can see in him/her that which no one else sees i.e. the best version of her. Never over do the compliments. No one likes a sycophant.
After it gets a bit serious – Now is the point when you get to know each other. And by know i mean getting to know the real you, all your shortcomings and irritating character trait included. Keep one happy memory or the best character trait of your partner etched permanently in your mind. This should not be a lame one like how it was when you were single rather it should be a strong memory/trait which makes you feel the happiest or luckiest. And whenever you come across any unpleasantness or discover any character flaw in your partner concentrate on this memory and forget everything else. This will make you do things to make her feel lucky and happy and thus carry your relationship across the tempests of life.
When you know she is “The one” – This is the point from which all other hacks mentioned in previous posts will come to no or little avail. From here on the best relationship hack is to Make her fall in love with you every day. I know it might sound cheesy or something you read in novels like the “happily ever after endings” but the truth is if you are able to accomplish it even on alternate days you will experience something which every one aspires of but few experience – A truly happy relationship.