21 Women Reveal The One Thing Their Significant Other Does In Bed That Makes Them Feel Like A Goddess

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1. Sounds

I know some guys may feel weird about being vocal, heavy breathing/moaning/groaning/saying how incredible something feels, but there is nothing that makes me feel more like a goddess than when I can hear his pleasure like that. Makes me feel like I’m doing everything right, and it makes me feel like I never want to stop driving him crazy.

2. Necking

Sometimes he really lets go. He’ll rest his head against my neck and hold me as close as he can. The sounds and passion make me feel like the most desirable woman alive.

3. Dominating

Being aggressive. Dominating me like he can’t wait to fuck my brains out. Push me against the wall and just manhandle me. Throw me onto the bed and tear off my clothes. And talk dirty to me while you’re doing it.

4. Dirty talk

He says things like, “Yes, baby, fuck me with that gorgeous pussy,” when I am riding him. I’d never been one for being on top before (I didn’t think I was very good at it, so I was always kind of reluctant), but when he says things like that it honestly makes me want to be on top all the time.

He also squeezes me so tightly and calls my name when he reaches climax; it turns me on, it’s so intense – and I’ve never experienced that level of, well, enthusiasm before. He often can barely move when he’s done, and has to lie on top of me for a while panting, usually still inside me. He confessed that nobody has ever made him cum as hard as I do, and that when he cums with me he feels like his head is going to explode (another thing that makes me feel like an absolute goddess – helloooo ego trip). Damn he makes me feel good about myself in bed..

5. Sexy kisses

The guy with whom I had the best sex I’ve had thus far would hold me in his arms and run his nose up my stomach to my neck, kiss all the way down my arms, and compliment me on my body. Every so often, he would look at me for a second and then just kiss me, like he couldn’t help it. When we actually had sex, he always made me feel like he wanted me so badly he couldn’t help it. It was one of the sexiest, most flattering things anyone has ever done to me.

6. Rimjobs

My boyfriend has always been good in bed, but last week he told me to lay on my tummy, and then licked my ass for the first time ever. It was fucking HOT and felt amazing. The best part was the adoration in his voice when he’d pull away to tell me how hot it was and how beautiful my ass was before diving back in. A man who thinks your butthole is a thing to be worshipped is a keeper who gets a lot of blowjobs.

7. Ass worship

Keep on worshiping and telling me how my ass is fucking amazing. It will never get old. No matter how you keep on telling me this I will ALWAYS enjoy hearing it.

8. Eating pussy (and listening?)

Cunnilingus, In the morning. Cunnilingus In the evening. Cunnilingus at supper time. I’m his little sugar, and he eats it all the time.

No seriously, cunnilingus, and surprise romance. Plus listening is key.

9. Body massage

Hour long full body massages before fingering me until I come. Oh my god it is good.

10. Complete (?) dominance (?)

When he tells me to “Shut the fuck up” and slaps me across the face.

Gets me every single time.

11. Grinding

When he is fucking me without just doing the ol’ “in-out-in-out.”

It’s kind of a vertically rotational movement. When he enters, it is angled kind of like he’s trying to touch my belly with the end of his dick, then when he’s all the way in, he holds it for a second or two, and I can grind against him before letting go and sliding back out. Leads to more of a slow humping motion than “bouncing.”

12. Orgasm searching

When he’ll do any and everything to make me orgasm. Also when he tells me how good is feel, smell and/or taste.

13. Rough sex

Being man handled, damn it I’m not going to break just because I’m skinny, really go for it.

14. Eye contact

When I look away, or close my eyes, and I’m in my own world, then I look up at him and his eyes are glued to me, watching my face and body go crazy while he fucks me. He is 100% there with me, interested in what I’m doing, loving my body, makes me feel great.

15. Scratching

The passion in his face when he pushes me up against a wall and kisses me to get things started always makes me weak in the knees.

Sometimes when he has his orgasm he bites down on my arm or neck, depending on our position and kind of wimpers. Mother of God that just about gets me off all on its own.

He kisses me, I’m not much for mouth kissing when we’re having sex but he kisses me all over, as if to remind me how much he wants me.

I ALWAYS get off. No matter what he has to do, if it’s foreplay, or something special during, or even if he stops in the middle to make sure.. he always makes sure he gets the job done.

He gets a little forceful sometimes. Not overly dominating, but he takes what he wants and that is sooooo sexy.

I get scratched. Almost as much as I scratch.

Afterwards, he’ll be out of breath and mutter things like “Holy fuck” or “…wow…”

He caresses me after. And kisses me, and tells me how beautiful I am. Now if you’ll all excuse me I have a phone call to make.

16. Jedi mind tricks

When I’m not really in the mood…and he tells me I’m in the mood. “Yes you are.”….and panties dropped.

17. Experimentation

My ex was inexperienced. But he always listened, he was always willing to try new things. He always did as I said. Absolutely made me feel like a Goddess.

18. Full mast every time

He gets visibly hard when he sees me… everytime… without fail. Makes me feel like a Sex goddess.

19. Nipple twist

I love anything with boobs. Twist my nipples gently suck on them. Rub them.

What I love even more than that is doggy style. Slap my ass when we are close to climax. Anal has its moments with me. It can feel better than the pussy most of the time.

20. Communication

I’ve got to say, the best is when he tells you how much he enjoys pleasing you. For example, when he tells me how he loves going down on me, it makes me feel like I can do anything, and then it generally leads into more elation for the both of us.

21. Sacrificing

Sacrifices a goat and then douses me in his blood offering so that the crops will be fertile this year.

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