INFJ: Lately you’ve been feeling out of sync with some of the people you’re closest to, and you can’t figure out why.
I’ve come to the decision that it’s fundamentally unfair that you exist.
Being ‘just friends’ means watching you move on.
Taking a long time to commit.
Playing devil’s advocate.
People can sense that kind of desperation a mile away.
You were happy on your own before this, which means you have the power to be happy on your own again after this.
ISTP: You need independence like a fish needs water.
The last thing you want is someone who ‘has all the answers’ – because all that means is that they’ve been asking uninteresting questions.
By eliminating the scary unknown, we eliminate the chance to be genuinely surprised and delighted by life.