ENFP: Hiking up a mountainside in Nepal, because the love of your life also took a 6-month sabbatical to go adventuring. Obviously.

ENTP: At a startup incubator where they’re showcasing their groundbreaking new project – which you desperately wish you’d thought of first.

INTP: At a Go tournament. They’ll beat you. You’ll fall in love.

ESTJ: At a sporting event – one where you get into a heated argument with the ref and they take your side.

ISFP: At a dance class, in which they literally sweep you off your feet.

INFP: At an open mic night, where you will fall in love via a series of songs and poems that are subtly directed at each other.

ESFJ: At a meetup group that you organized to bring the members of your community closer together.

INTJ: Your hands will graze at a book shop as you reach for the last copy of Nietzsche’s “Beyond Good And Evil.” Several years later, you’ll realize that the lack of distaste you feel towards them is love.

ISTJ: On the side of the road when their car breaks down and none of the other idiots stop to help them so you dutifully pull over.

ESTP: You’ll save them from drowning and/or a tragic paragliding accident. Because you’re their instructor. Or their paramedic. Or both.

ISTP: On the highway, where they keep passing your motorcycle with their motorcycle and you fall instantly in love.

ENFJ: At the yearly leadership conference that you attend in order to find additional ways to give back to your community. They’ll be leading the conference.

ISFJ: In high school – college at the latest. You don’t let a good thing get away.

INFJ: At a non-profit fundraising event where you are both voluntarily showcasing your research in the field.

ESFP: At summer camp. Or whichever summer camp-like profession you choose to spend the rest of your life at.

ENTJ: You are probably already their boss.