18 People Share The One Thing That They Wish The ESTPs In Their Lives Knew

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1. “You don’t have to do everything! You’re not letting people down if you take a day to rest, or if you respectfully decline a potential commitment. You’re awesome, but no one ever said that you had to do everything. Be wise.” –INFP

2. “Please try empathizing before you get frustrated at me for why I care what others think so much.” –ENFJ

3. “You are a ball of fire and people are drawn to you. Keep doing you.” –INTJ

4. “Your ability to go from insane fun to super rigid in 2.5 seconds flat is a bit terrifying. Try to gauge where other people are before you flip the switch.” –ENFJ

5. “Stop taking my spot as the center of attention.” –ESFP

6. “You love risk taking, that’s ok. Thrills can be amazing just don’t drag your friends down a dangerous path unless you’re prepared and capable of getting them out.” – ENFP

7. “Stop trying to impress everyone by buying a bunch of fancy things you cant afford… no one cares that much!” –ENFP

8. “Sometimes you’re a little too irritable when I vent my feelings.” –ESFJ

9. “You’re the most stubborn of all of us. Your spirit animal is a bull. If there’s a decision to make, you’ve probably come up with the best option, I admit it wholeheartedly, but don’t shove it down our goddamn throats like that. Please, please, please, learn to understand and appreciate the value of other people’s points of view. Keep going strong, but don’t trample the people you love in the process. Because we love you too, it’s just hard sometimes when you don’t leave us any breathing room.” –ISTP

10. “Keep being cool, tone your rants down. Don’t judge a person by their cover. Keep on breaking the rules and make sure to speak your true mind.” –ENTP

11. “Sometimes the risks you take are dumb.” -ISFJ

12. “You are more intelligent, wise, and capable than most people give you credit for being.” –INTJ

13. “I wish you could hear how judgmental you sound when you make jokes at my expense about how I should change.” –ISTJ

14. “Please stop throwing people away. Please don’t be manipulative and self-serving. Learn how not to be so angry.” –ISFJ

15. “We don’t need hard advice every time – we take it more personally than you think.” –ISFJ

16. “I admire your entrepreneurial spirit!” –ENFJ

17. “You’re not right all the freaking time. And no, we’re not having sex.” –ENFP

18. “You guys just keep doing your thing. It’s a lot of fun to watch for the rest of us.” –INFJ