22 People Share The One Thing They Wish The ENTJs In Their Lives Understood

1. “I am incredibly jealous of your natural, effortless leadership and your ability to take charge in a group.” –INFJ

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2. “You’re allowed to stop for three second and let someone else take a turn at speaking/leading/running the show. We have the skills. Let us have a go.” –ESFP

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3. “Stop trying to fix me when I’m venting, sometimes I just need to talk and not have things fixed.” –INTP

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4. “Maybe you could care…like a little?” –ESTP

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5. “I don’t think you guys always know how much of an impact you have on people. You’re a natural leader, and so people take what you say very seriously. I know you don’t like thinking about emotions, but please understand that with great power, comes great responsibility. You’ve got hardcore leadership skills. Please don’t use them for evil. Oh, and you give great complements. Seriously, when a rationalist gives complements you know it’s the real dill and not fluff at all. It means a lot.” –ENFP

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6. “Sometimes you terrify me but I pity the fool who hurts me when you’re around.” –INFP

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7. “Stop trying to get everyone else to do all the tasks you don’t want to do for you.” –ENFP

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8. “Something about you is just scintillatingly brilliant. Go deep with that, plumb it all the way. Analyze, dissect, and enjoy life to the fullest. Don’t let it drive you to negativity and crassness.” –ISTP

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9. “Don’t be stiff. Don’t be so judgemental. DON’T STANDARDIZE THINGS!!” –ISTP

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10. “How about you listen to us for a change?” –ENFJ

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11. “I really like how you take charge. It’s easy for me never to take charge, though, so sometimes back off a little so that I have to.” –INFJ

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12. “Please stop giving us cold, logical advice that we never asked for.” –ENFJ

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13. “You know, you catch more flies with honey.” –ISFJ

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14. “Warning: many (or most) people in your life may believe you to be an arrogant son of a bitch. If they’re right, you may want to adjust a few things. But if they just can’t handle your personality, try to be more patient and understanding of them (without of course mitigating yourself for them!).” –INTJ

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15. “Chill out. We love you but seriously, take some time to chill out.” –ENFP

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16. “Honey it’s okay to let your guard down and show your emotions sometimes!” –ENFP

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17. “I know you are not a robot. I feel so special when you show me your bunny-loving teddy bear side and I appreciate so, so much that you value me for my conversation and ideas, rather than my looks or hipness or something else superficial. You make me feel safe.” –INFJ

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18. “Thank you for helping me become a better person. I love that ENTJs truly will help anyone become better at anything.” –INTJ

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19. “Stop being always in control, we like you as a friend not as a leader.” –ENFP

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20. “If I don’t mesh with you so well, I would love to know why so that I can change or simply understand why things don’t work between us. Please don’t be manipulative and self-serving. Please don’t hold against me that I’m not an intuitive.” –ISFJ

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21. “I like how endless our topics of conversation are. I like how you give me a new angle to see things from. Although you are a heartless bitch/bastard sometimes, you are a good friend. You’re like the functional, better version of me.” –INTJ

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22. “Your tough love and eternal frankness is one of the best things about you, most times. Sometimes, though, it’s okay to sugar coat your words and soften the blow.” –INFJ TC mark

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