Fall in love with someone who, no matter the weather, chooses to be by your side. Not every day will be a good day. There will be fights, anxieties, and loneliness that will fill your whole being. But when you’re with the right person, all of those things won’t be as difficult, because you’ve got someone by your side that makes things a little bit lighter than they actually are. When you’re with the right one, you will know. They will not bail when things are tough. They won’t go anywhere.
Fall in love with someone who communicates well with you. We all have differences, and every relationship will have its own conflicts. But the right person will try their best to understand you, to get into your shoes and know where you’re coming from. You won’t have to tiptoe around them and be scared that if you try to speak to them about your needs and wants, they will walk away. No, the right one will always meet you halfway. They will communicate with you even if the conversation is not always going to be comfortable.
Fall in love with someone who matches your energy. You can’t be the only one investing in your relationship. You can’t be the only one putting effort and making plans all the time. You deserve someone who longs for you, someone who makes you feel special and appreciated. Be with someone who always has the energy to see you and spend time with you, no matter how busy their life gets. Remember, people make time for who they want to make time for. It’s 2020. Busy is no longer accepted as an excuse.
Fall in love with someone who makes you feel safe. It’s hard to find someone you can be vulnerable with. Someone who makes you feel secure and won’t judge you for all your issues and anxieties. The right one will try their best not to hurt you or use those things to attack you. They will take care of your heart and value it the best they can because they know how hard it is for you to trust them not to break it.
Fall in love with someone who wants to know every bit of you, your past, your childhood, your entire being. It’s rare to find someone who actually cares about those things. It’s not very often that you will come across someone who not only wants to be intimate with you in bed but also get intimate with you on a deeper level. Someone who wants to know your soul so they can take care of you the right way.
Fall in love with someone who inspires you to be better. Someone who encourages you to grow. Someone who shares their values, dreams, and aspirations with you. Someone who pushes you to be the best version of yourself. Someone who fights for you and is your strength when you’re too weak. Someone who lifts you up when you’re just about to give up. Someone who puts your broken pieces back together.
Fall in love with someone who’s not only a lover but a best friend. Build a friendship first, and don’t rush getting into a relationship. Be with someone who wants to get to know you and is willing to wait until you are both ready to jump into a serious and mature relationship where you both will build together and do life together. Relationships like that take time. It doesn’t happen overnight. It doesn’t happen in a month or even two. Keep in mind that good things happen to those who wait.
Most importantly, fall in love with someone who asks God to guide them how to love you correctly. Someone who seeks God with you and makes you fall in love with Him every single day. Someone whose heart belongs to God. Someone who puts Him in the center of the relationship. Someone who looks forward to the day you both walk down the altar together, hand-in-hand.