Here’s How You Should Love Him So That You Don’t Lose Him

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I think you should know a few things from me because you are now his new possession, the apple of his eye.

I hope you’re the kind of girl who is patient, kind and understanding because these are the most important things you need along the way.

Loving him is like going to a battle except you’re armor-less, fighting for a love without weapon.

You don’t know what will happen in the battlefield yet you continue to fight for him anyways because you love him. That’s what you do when you love a person.

He is the type of guy who would do anything just to be with you. He’ll give you what you deserve. Pamper you like a child, buy you food, and support you with the things that you want. Just please do the same for him. Give and take as he said.

He likes pizza so much. So much that he can eat an entire plate. But this you should know, he’ll love you as much he loves this food. He’ll even give you the last piece of pizza if you asked him to.

He’s sensitive. Be careful with every word you will say. Don’t yell at him and blame everything to him. Talk to him calmly because he does the same.

He’s clingy. Hold his hand if he’s cold. Hug him tight and kiss him. Comfort him without saying a word if you think he’s sad even if he won’t say it. Look deeper on his eyes and tell him you love him so much and you’re there for him.

He likes being appreciated. Appreciate his efforts even if its little. Thank him for everything he does and give him a smile.

He is a big joker. You will laugh more than you will ever will. He’ll give you tears. Tears of joy.

He likes to play sports and be with his friends. Be patient. Wait for him to return home and cheer him up when he loses a game.

He might take you for granted at times but never lose hope. Lower you expectations. Be understanding. It may hurt, but he’s worth it. Trust me he is.

Tell him you love him. Tell him everything. Listen to his stories he likes that. Make him feel special and he’s the only one.

Compliment him. Tell him he looks good or smells good, or his hair is on point and his clothes look nice on him.

Be kind to him. In whatever he does, did, and will do wrong just please be kind. Give him chances. And yes it will hurt, but that’s when you know you really love the person right? It makes you more human because you can feel pain.

Trust him. Trust his words, his actions even if you’re in doubt, you should still do it. And also trust your love for him. Recall the reasons why you loved him in the first place.

Lastly, take care of him. I did. I swear I did. But sometimes things don’t go along the way you wanted to even if you want it to be yours so much. You just can’t. So please take care of him. Take care of him for me. Because that guy I’m willing to give everything to and risk anything, the guy I almost have but never did is the guy that will always be closest to my heart. I don’t want him to be hurt all over again because I love him. I’ll always do. It’s always been him. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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