In an extreme either-or situation, I’d definitely go for the intellectually stimulating, but looks like the back end of a bus; over the extremely gorgeous, but not the brightest crayon in the box.
You scoff in derision. After over a decade, his douchery is still as stark as ever.
So you had a fight with your best friend, or the guy you’ve been into hasn’t returned your calls, or your mortal enemy at work got the promotion you’ve been working your ass off for, etc. and now you’re all miserable and inconsolable; you retreat, lick your wounds, and wallow in self pity.
I know this isn’t relatively new material; but nonetheless, I’d like to share my two cents on this interesting, albeit overrated, topic.