“I was 23 and my wife was 21. It was extremely hard to wait but I would say it’s worth it. We had both talked to friends and my dad gave me some really awkward but useful advice. After the wedding we got to our suite in the hotel. We started with oral and foreplay and such. Mostly because we were a little nervous. We started and I put way to much lube on. We laughed and it wasn’t overly painful for her. I don’t even remember how long it lasted, but the night was amazing. I would say the best part about having each other as our “first”, was learning about the how-to sex together. It has been a lot of fun and very comfortable. We’ve been together now for almost 5 years.”
“Both of us waited.
It was tough, took several hours to achieve full penetration (oral, massages, showers, wine, jacuzzi kept us busy) but totally worth it. Sharing the first time was really nice, can’t imagine doing it with someone I did not know well. It created such an emotional bond.
Still married years later and really glad we waited.”
“It was awesome and awkward and funny and loving! We laughed and groaned and eventually came.
I don’t think my hymen fully broke that night. It hurt and I tensed up and asked/screamed for him to stop. There was lots of oral sex though.”
“Horrible. Neither of us had ever had sex and didn’t really have realistic expectations. The next morning he informed me that it wasn’t very good for him and he felt maybe he loved me more ‘like a good friend’. Honeymoon over. Due to strict, religious upbringing we lasted 17 years before I had to just go.”
“Started in the hot tub. Bad idea. Water is a shitty lubricant. Decided to move to the bed. As she was getting out of the hot tub she slipped and fell. Laughed it off. Got to the bed. Finally got it in. Came after one thrust.”