Dear My Future Husband,
I am just 20 years old and already I feel I am ready to find you. I dream of the day I’ll walk down the isle towards you in front of all our friends and family (Hopefully my family doesn’t outnumber yours by too much). When I think of who you’ll be or what you’ll be like, I am lost in the confusion of my desires. I want to be treated fairly and kindly; to be loved and reminded of that love regularly, but I also want to work to please you. In the past, I have been in relationships where I am put on a pedestal and don’t have to work to make him happy, but you deserve my effort. I’m sure you are sweet and gentile, but assertive and aggressive when I need you to be. We’ll have children and dogs and a beach house in the south. I’ll spend my day writing novels while you work diligently doing the job you love. And when you return home to me at night we shall put the kids to bed and close down the house. When we climb in bed we will make passionate love each night for all of our lives. I never want to grow apart from you. If we ever grow bored of our day-to-day life, promise we’ll acknowledge it and take the time away we need. When the kids are grown, let’s travel the world and see all the things we have dreamed of. Let’s spoil our grandkids and love them all like they’re the only one. Let’s retire to the beach and make it the home our grown children can’t wait to come back to for Christmas.
Whoever you are, wherever you are right now, thank you for loving me the way I know you do. Know always that I wouldn’t marry you if I didn’t love you more than anything in the world. I promise t stand by your forever.
Your future wife
P.S. Find me quick.