I guess what I’m saying is that you shouldn’t have to depend on someone—a romantic partner in particular— to find your way through life.
We not only spend our day writing about love and health, but we’re also constantly immersed into a vast culture of romance, lust, desire, and passion.
If you’re the one he wants, he won’t ever want to chase you. He’ll make you his starting player and clear out his bench.
Here’s the overall truth that you need to accept: He doesn’t really miss you. Because, if he did, he would react to those feelings and do something about it.