He thinks only about his wants and needs, and not yours. This is NO fun and you will end up being a doormat.
You met a great guy, and now you don’t want to let him slip through your fingers.
History has proven that manipulation is the only way to get what you want.
I think Gertrude Stein had it all wrong when she said, “I really do not know that anything has ever been more exciting than diagramming sentences.” We’ve mastered the English language, but to my mind, there’s nothing more exciting than a relationship between two people.