I’m Tired Of Being Judged Because Women Want To Have Sex With Me

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I do a lot of reading and usually keep my writings to myself because I don’t care what people think, but I feel the need to share something.

If I’m being honest I sleep with a lot of girls. I was a little late to the sexual game as I didn’t lose my virginity until I was sixteen, but in the seven years since then I’ve more than made up for it. For me sex is nothing more than sex. I don’t want to get married and, honestly, I rarely want to sleep with the same girl more than once. If I happen to end up in a relationship it usually ends because I’ll end up sleeping with one of her friends. It’s not that I plan on it, it just happens and, if I’m being truthful, I don’t care.

I know you’re probably going to read that and think I’m a piece of garbage, but here’s my argument; if girls have a problem with it then don’t have sex with me. If I’m seeing a girl and I can feel up her friend while she’s in the bathroom, why is all the focus on me being the bad guy and not on your awful, slut friend? Then if her friend is a good lay and I decide to I want to hit that for a while, why would she get mad when I end up doing the same thing to her? I started seeing you when I was with your friend so what makes you think you’re any better? Stop blaming me because you’re not interesting enough to hold a relationship.

The other part that really bothers me is the reason that I didn’t use my picture when writing this. I have an STD. I don’t let it hold me back from enjoying life, but obviously I have to be careful with what I do. I take medicine for it, so don’t worry. The thing is, like most guys, I hate using condoms so if a girl is willing to have sex with me without a condom, why wouldn’t I do it? I mean more than likely this is just some girl I just met in a club or in a bar and we don’t know each other’s last name so if she doesn’t make a complete stranger wear a condom, what does she expect? It’s more of her responsibility to protect herself than for me to inform her of my medical conditions. I’m taking a chance too because she could also have something and now I’m in an even worse position.

I honestly don’t think I should be punished for being an attractive male. There are so many blogs and sites pushing women to be confident but I believe men should be confident in themselves as well. Confidence is sexy and has gotten me this far so I refuse to believe anything to the contrary. If you’re some feminist that disagrees with me that’s fine, there are plenty of other women who aren’t feminists out there for me. You can’t win them all, but all you need is one win per night. Two if you’re lucky. TC Mark

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