For a long time, it was always hard for me to understand who is ‘right’ and who is ‘wrong’ — until I realized that there really is no right and wrong and this entire conflict is, in my opinion, bogus.
Why do we always look at other people as if they have it easier? Sure, some people are born or luck into advantages here and there, but there is not one human being living on this earth who has never felt like giving up.
Not everyone decides to stay in your life when there are tons of tears, snot, and throw up. Some run away when things go horribly wrong. They are afraid of facing reality. But you are rare.
Eventually, you will get to that point where you say, “This is how things are, but soon things will fall into place.” And if you don’t believe it, then continue telling it to yourself until you do.
Despite how amazing your friends are, your sister is LITERALLY constantly by your side. She’ll be there, always, to constantly cheer you up and make you realize that the boy you once loved was never worth your time.
2. To show them that you are serious about the relationship.
Despite all of her feelings, sex was always something she wanted to save for marriage. It was a personal thing. However, he manipulated his way into taking her virginity. Which led me to wonder: can manipulation to achieve sex be a gateway to rape?
When your lover talks about your problems with you and tries to sort them out, it’s his way of showing you that your affection is worth fighting for. That’s why great fathers don’t avoid these conversations, because they don’t want to lose the love you have for them.
You’ve yelled and cried, to him and at him, and he still forgave you. He is of the few who still loves you even in your lowest moments.
I don’t want to be selfish and ruin something great, even if it isn’t my something great. I can’t be that girl, I won’t be.