You’ll Find Love As Soon As You Stop Searching For It

Natalie Allen
Natalie Allen

People often say that you’ll find love when you least expect it, because once you take your mind off of something, it usually happens.

In reality it’s healthy for you to say, “I’m letting destiny take control.” After all, what’s meant to be will always find its way. Let Fate do the work, let the Universe be the witness, and let Love consume you when it’s time.

One fine day, you’ll realize you shouldn’t force love. 

Allowing the right person into your life through chance is much less exhausting than wondering if every person is the “one” for you. Let love find you when you’re ready. If you let love happen naturally, you will raise your chances of finding the right person. It’ll be a match made in heaven, rather than something manmade and artificial.

One fine day, you’ll understand why all of your past relationships failed.

When you finally meet your other half, you will understand why all of your exes had to let you go. When you meet the one who deserves your love, you’ll understand why you and your exes are meant to be apart. All of your whys and what ifs about the past will vanish. You will be proud to say, “I’m glad it didn’t work out with anyone else, but you.”

One fine day, you’ll stop looking for love and start loving yourself.

When you’re not looking for someone to love, that’s when the right person will appear. Focus on your own life growth. It will not only make you a better person, but it will also make you a better life partner. Pursue your dream career, complete your bucket list, make time to reach your goals, travel to new places, and give yourself space to grow. Hustle hard and keep yourself successful. Don’t stay stuck in one place. Do better.

Once you truly love and respect yourself, you’ll be free from doubts and endless worry. Then you can trust your feelings and decisions. This will allow you to be courageous and authentic. You will stop focusing on the negative and become open to the possibilities within and outside of yourself. Most importantly, you’ll start to attract happiness, confidence, peace, and positivity.

One fine day, you’ll believe that you deserve to be loved.

You deserve to live in reality, not in a fantasy. You deserve to be appreciated, to feel validated in your relationship. You deserve his word, his consistency, and his honesty. You deserve to be spoiled, not just in material things, but with the gift of memories. You deserve an affectionate type of love. You deserve someone who takes you into his open arms after a long day, and causes sparks every time your fingers intertwine. You deserve a love that is real, genuine, passionate, and proud.

One fine day, you’ll realize that true love actually does exist. 

Once you finally find the right man, love will be easy. It’ll be natural. It’ll flow freely without judgment or pretense. It’ll inspire and nourish the both of you. Your lives will be richer together. You’ll wonder why it didn’t happen sooner, but you’ll thank God for letting it happen when you least expected it.

Remember, true love is not something you go out and look for. Love finds you, and when it does, ready or not, it’ll be the best thing to ever happen to you. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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