17 Men Reveal What Makes A Girl A ‘Good’ Kisser


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1. “They bite my lower lip. That drives me absolutely crazy. If a girl does that, she’s a good kisser.” — Brad, 30

2. “They know that a kiss is not just about the kiss. They put their hands in their hair and drape one of their legs over my leg. They don’t just kiss my mouth, they suck on my earlobe and (gently) kiss my neck. They make me feel like they want every inch of me.” — Stephen, 29

3. “She leans in, but she doesn’t attack me. I like it when a girl is a little bit submissive and lets me lead. I like to feel like I’m kind of in charge and she’s totally being wooed by me.” — Ben, 27

4. “A good kisser adjusts their style to the person they are kissing. They start off slow and read your cues. They follow your tongue around with their tongue. If you grab a little handful of their hair, they do it back to you. It’s not just a tit for tat thing, but they pay attention to what you do and what you like and then they give that kind of kiss to you.” — Kevin, 27

5. “They’re playful. I love it when a girl giggles during a kiss because we’re having such a good time playing around. You can tell she’s having a really good time.” — Aaron, 29

6. “A good kisser is someone who kisses with a lot of passion. She’s sensual. She’ll deep kiss you and then peck you on the mouth. She’ll suck on your lips and run her hands all over your body. She gets you excited about where that kiss is leading.” — Andy, 22

7. “She doesn’t stare at me like a total psycho. Opening your eyes once in awhile is understandable but some chicks straight up STARE you down. What the hell?” — Mike, 23

8. “A good kisser is an open-minded kisser. Like, if I do something weird to a girl like suck on her tongue and she’s into it, I get really excited because it means when we get to doing other stuff she’ll be really open-minded as well.” — Jason, 28

9. “If a girl reaches down and starts rubbing my dick over my pants while we are kissing, that’s a great kiss.” — Mike, 23

10. “Oh man, if a girl makes that little kiss moan when I kiss her — like she just got turned on, that’s a good kiss.” — Mark, 33

11. “She doesn’t open her mouth and then just lay there. She’s an active participant in the kiss. Some girls just sit there with their mouth open like they are trying to catch flies. It’s weird to kiss someone else’s open mouth! Kiss back! Close your mouth around my lower lip, put your tongue in my mouth, do something!” – Morgan, 29

12. “They have good breath, their mouths taste good, they use their hands. They don’t kiss too deeply or too gently.” — Jonathan, 24

13. “They bite. A gentle bite pretty much anywhere is a big, big turn on.” — Jim, 32

14. “If someone is enthusiastic about a kiss, it’s pretty hard to be a bad kisser. Even if they come on a little strong, it’s forgivable as long as they give me that ego stroke of being really into the kiss. Kiss me back, breathe heavily, touch me all over. We’re good.” — John, 35

15. “I don’t like having saliva all over my face, and I don’t like when a girl doesn’t open her mouth enough and you feel like you’re trying to force your tongue into her throat. Everything in between is great.” — Jason, 28

16. “An expert kisser keeps it fun and full of surprises. She varies how deep she’s kissing me, she kisses me in different places, there’s something fun and playful about it. It’s not kissing the same way for five minutes straight waiting for it to be over.” — Peter, 20

17. “If kissing is a language, a good kisser is someone who says very clearly ‘I like you.'” — Justin, 25 Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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