Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

Aries are adventurous and independent, they have no problem going on a solo expedition into the unknown. However, they struggle with the routine and focus that is necessary to achieve their major life goals. Aries need to give up the idea that life is supposed to be a non-stop movie montage where each day is different and more exciting than the next. Learn to find joy in the new adventures you’re able to experience as a result of sticking around for awhile.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

Every Taurus needs to cut out of their life the belief that everyone who tries to get close to them is out to tame them, or force them to give up the independence they love so much. It’s very possible for someone to love you as you are, without needing to own or change you. Be open to them.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

Gemini’s notoriously have a hard time making up their mind, they want to pursue every project they think of. They pick up and drop hobbies and dreams like other people change clothes. To grow, a Gemini needs to let go of the guilt they hang on to about being fickle. Sure, it seems flakey, but it stems from their biggest strength: passion. Who cares what other people think? Be happy with your energetic, lively, creative self.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Cancers have an incredible capacity to love people. But with that, comes the capacity to be hurt. A lot. Cancers need to let go of the people in their past who didn’t love them and look to the future when they will find someone who will.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Leos need to let go of the need to be praised by others in order to feel confident in themselves. This is a nice way to receive affection, but it can’t be a requirement for the world to feel right.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

Virgos need to give up the belief that everything has to be planned and ordered before it can be perfect. A little spontaneity is healthy for you! Be your put-together self most of the time, but when the opportunity presents itself, learn to be a teeny-tiny bit reckless.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

Libras need to learn to let go of the weight of other people’s feelings. Libras take on other people’s emotional needs freely: they love to help their loved ones solve problems by being their logical yet empathetic sounding board. While a good trait, it can be very draining. At the end of the day, they need to let go of this burden and worry about their own self-care.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

Scorpios need to give up the need to be right all the time. In an argument, we describe the better arguer as the “winner” but if they do so at the cost of their relationships — they aren’t really winning.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

Sagittarius people need to cut out extra flirting. It’s hard to give up something you’re so good at, but past a certain point it’s not fair to the emotions of those around you.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

Capricorns need to cut back on their cold exterior shell. Listen to me when I say every single relationship in your life will be better if you make just a small effort on this front. People aren’t out to get you, it will be okay to let them in a little bit.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

Aquarians need to give up the feeling that everyone should care as much as they do. It’s your gift, Aquarius! It wouldn’t be as special if we were all exactly the same.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

Pisces need to ease up on the self-doubt. It’s a hard thing to cut out completely, especially for such creative people, but they truly have an abundance of it. Keep a journal of nice things people say about you and reference it when you’re feeling down. Everyone loves a Pisces!