100 Men On “Would You Date Someone Who Slept With You On The First Date?”

70. Mark, 29, straight

Depends on the sex. It better blow my mind.

71. Adrian, 21, straight

If I am attracted to her yes I would date her again. If I was just horny then no.

72. Nate, 31, straight

I personally would not think less of someone because they slept with me on a first date. If it was someone I was really attracted to and wanted to get to know better, I may decide to wait just because then there is still some mystery and intrigue.

73. Cameron, 32, straight

I don’t think it is a bad thing but many women I dated felt otherwise.

74. Joe, 23, straight

It’s actually a great sign that you both would like a second date.

75. Sal, 25, straight

I have a guy friend of mine who went on a date with a girlfriend of my wife, they slept together on their first date and she decided she couldn’t respect him because he slept with her on their first date.

76. Andy, 25, straight

I have definitely not wanted to talk to someone later because they acted a certain way, and we slept together. I also know guys who are just looking to get laid and do this all the time.

77. Jason, 39, straight

I’m dating someone currently who I am very into and we slept together the first night. It just felt right, and we were into each other. I’d say be realistic about what you want and what he wants, as much as you can know. And don’t let society sexually shame you. There is nothing wrong about having sex with someone you just met and not speaking afterwards. It does not implicitly diminish the experience. If you want to and choose to sleep with him, enjoy it, and have fun, and keep it as an enjoyable memory in your head.

78. Jon, 31, straight

Most guys wouldn’t think less of you for having sex on the first date. The only thing that would change that is if you kicked him out right after sex or you ignored or avoided him after that.

79. Mark, 27, straight

I’d like to just get it out of the way since sex would happen later. I don’t think it affects a relationship at all.

80. Matthew, 25, straight

I might ask her to marry me.

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