100 Men On “Would You Date Someone Who Slept With You On The First Date?”

11. Darren, 35, straight

My ex and I slept together on the first date and were together for 7 years.

12. David, 36, straight

It is VERY BAD you will never be respected by any guy you sleep with on the first date. I’ve been looking for two years to find a fun partner that loves to have sex but withholds it for a couple weeks. Tough to find when your mid 30s.

13. Shane, 40, straight

It really depends on the girl, but 9 out 10 I would not look at as girlfriend material.

14. Denny, 28, straight

I don’t think it’s horrible if both people click and there’s chemistry. I think it could be awkward first date, but if mood is right and both are horny, why not? :) We’re all human!

15. Jay, 36, straight

Mature men look for ladies. The sort of ladies who wait for quite some time to hop into the bed together. I have more respect for the hard to get woman than the common easy girl.

16. Andy, 29, straight

That’s not necessarily a bad thing as long as she’s honest and upfront with me. As a gentleman I always leave it up to the woman to decide if she wants to have sex or not.

17. Brian, 22, straight

If you really hit it off and enjoy each others company, why not! I wouldn’t think any less of her nor would she think any less of me.

18. Derk, 41, straight

That depends entirely on what kind of date it was or how strong the mutual feeling was. You can’t fight attraction plain and simple.

19. Chris, 25, straight

No they will have a few more dates as long as they can fuck you. Then they will blow you off. Just saying.

20. Anthony, 35, straight

I’ve had sex on the first date a couple of times and we ended up dating long term.

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