If someone holds a grudge, that’s their problem- not yours.
“I was insecure and looking for anybody to validate me and build me up because at that time, I couldn’t do it myself, so any guy who showed interest made me feel worth something, validated, hot, whatever. It was pathetic but that was my struggle.”
We are sorry that you are one of the women of this world that is a sole example of why women so often hate one another.
Remember to stop and look around, Appreciate the simple things, Like beautiful everyday sounds.
You will learn things about yourself you didn’t know. You will be put in situations that let you discover things about yourself you may not have known.
I also realized, there are two kinds of people in this world. There are the people who feel sorry for themselves, dwell, ask “why me,” and sink into pity. Or, theres the people, who take whatever they are faced with and ricochet.
ultimately we will all realize that we need to stop fighting for the wrong people. Stop yearning for the people who keep us down. The people we fight for should be the ones that will go to the darkest, and deepest holes for us, only to bring us back up on their shoulders.
About two years ago I became entranced with the belief of practicing gratitude and the unbelievable results so many have said they’ve had in doing so.
If somebody great came along would I date them? Yes. But am I happy being single? You bet your ass I am.
So often I hear people preaching that we should live our lives with no regrets. However, I disagree. I have regrets-hundreds, perhaps thousands. And so may you.