Criticism has been unfortunately devalued and assigned terms like “hate” and “venom.” We perceive anyone who dissents as a bad person and wrap ourselves in a positive feedback loop of only people who agree with us and the choices we’re making.
A bully is not a person: rather, bullying is a series of traits. Recognizing those traits within ourselves can help us to understand them.
If you’ve been afraid to set boundaries in your relationships, working in a customer service role will set you free and teach you the value of the word “no”.
They’re always right. You are always wrong.