The sassy large woman whose bag keeps slamming into you every time she looks around.
We all work with these types of people in the office. We choose to either put up with them, or we are ready to find the closest well possible to push these humans down to make it all stop.
I got an Uber ride last week, the driver was young, about my age (early 20s.) He seemed like he was lonely because he really wanted to make conversation with me, or maybe he just enjoys the presence of other people.
Yes, we think about the happy points in our lives of when we were in a relationship or something close to it and how it overall made ourselves a happier person, but ladies, I can’t say it more than your Aunt Carol at your annual family BBQ who is two chardonnays deep, “THESE ARE YOUR SELFISH YEARS.”
I urge you to look for these red flags from the beginning and save your energy and emotions for someone who is going to actually appreciate you and give you the time of day.