40 Relationship Red Flags You Should Watch For (As Told By 40 Women Who Didn’t)

6. “I’m damaged. Nobody understands me…”

A huge red flag I’ve learned is thay when a man (or woman) says ‘I should come with a warning label’ (ugh so lame but literally had a person say this to me) or some equivalent like; I’m damaged, no one understands me, I’m dangerous/edgy, I don’t play well with others… just take them at their word and leave. It’s not worth the emotional effort to get through to them and they will constantly use it as an excuse for bad or abusive behavior.

— anxietyshark

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