16 Men Reveal What Exactly Is Going Through Their Minds When They Are Fucking

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1.

Catholic guilt.

— narfasopalofagus

2.

Very primal and physically related thoughts. “Her ass looks fucking amazing, I’m gonna smack it.” “I love sucking her tits.” “Her pussy smells great.” – the problem is these thoughts/visuals cause me to spill my seed too early sometimes.

I can only look at her bouncing in reverse cowgirl for so long before I have to look away or close my eyes because I’ll blow my load. I wish I could think of other things like some men do, but at the same time I feel like that would take away from the experience. I don’t want to fuck a girl and think about algebra.

— Mustang80

3.

Several things really… in no real order.

  • Fuck, this feels good.
  • Let’s try and break her.
  • She’s soaking wet… thanks article X on how to eat pussy!
  • I love her eyes.
  • Am I still hard…?
  • Is my boner going away?
  • Her ass looks amazing.
  • Pull out? tummy? Face?
  • I love you.

— Tuki2ki2

4.

– this still feels pretty good after two kids.

– man I’m thirsty.

– I’m gonna sleep good after this.

– what if i just cum on her face by accident?

– sheets are sweaty.

— Jmpaul

5.

I feel like an engineer in a control room.

“Am I losing my erection? Shit, I’ll need to go faster and think of something especially sexy.”

“God dammit, I’ve over-corrected and about to cum. Should I pull out and hope I’m not too late to hold it back? How long have we been having sex? Is that too short a time? Has she orgasmed? If I cum too soon it’ll be awkward AF.”

“Fuck. All this worrying has stopped me from cumming, but now it’s caused me to go to half-mast. Fuck fuck fuck god dammit. Can she feel me going soft? How the fuck do I explain it away? Am I going to have to explain that it isn’t her and I just can’t get out of my own head? She’s never gonna have sex with me again after this.”

“Oh, I like it when she does that. Ok I’m hard again.”

— _KEGELS_

6.

New partners: my mind is 100% on how they’re making me feel and how attracted to them I am. I pay attention to their body as I learn it and the little things they really like.

If the sex is bad… disappointment and the idea of “let’s just make him cum so I can bail without feeling like an asshole.”

Long term: I think about everything that’s happening, how it feels, that I love them. It’s a pretty consuming feeling. I like to talk dirty so I think about those things. I’m definitely an all or nothing person in bed. I don’t want to have sex if it means Im just going through the motions.

— jewelrider

7.

Don’t cum, don’t cum, don’t cum, PULL OUT, PULL OUT, PULL OUT!

— holic_2

8.

Mostly concentrating on not finishing too early and remembering what positions I want to try next.

— Unsmiley

9.

When the sex is good, I have a momentary reprieve from constantly churning thoughts.

Nothing coherent, but there are vague emotional impressions. Happiness, safety, validation.

— Halafax

10.

Am I the only one whose mind wanders into a sort of dream-like state? Well, not always, but when the sex is good/intense (and not during foreplay etc.).

My mind isn’t blank, but it’s also not forming coherent thoughts, but all kinds of associations and images. Hard to explain, a dream or trance is the only description I can come up with.

— s1295

11.

My thoughts are, does she like that, what is on tonight, oh yeah I’m having sex concentrate! her ass looks great, that hurts, ah ah a charlie horse, that feels awesome, damn did she just cum, must hurry up to orgasam, what did my friend say about that movie I want to watch, oh crap I forgot to turn off the kitchen light, what time is it? and I came, what nexts?

— waywas

12.

“Ohhohoh Yeah. Fuck this angle is hot as fuck. Pussy. I’m fucking this pussy.”

Very base and carnal thoughts.

— xSerenadex

13.

Depends how horny / into it I am. It can range from “Okay, keep going, she likes it, come on, keep it up…” to “flesh grab fuck feel hands tits hold her fuck soft fuck neck lips moan feel her grab her fuck her fuck”.

— Stratisphear

14.

It’s totally different if it’s with someone I care about vs. a hookup. Emotional connection: them. All them. Making them feel good, what they sound, feel, and taste like, getting them off, looking at them, etc. Sex-only hookup: all me.

— just_real_quick

15.

Always thinking about what to do with my hands…always.

— 91Bolt

16.

Depends.

The thoughts that you can, like, hear in your voice are more focused on anxiety than anything else. If it’s a really long-term thing, that kind of goes away. Then it’s more about my partner and how I enjoy their company and warmth.

— kuury TC mark

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