He wasn’t your soulmate, he was a lesson – and what you projected onto him tells you everything that you need to know.
Sam: Thinks singing to a girl on the first date is romantic, you know this because it was filmed at some point, and got about 5K views on YouTube before he declared himself a “viral sensation.”
Empaths are more sensitive than other people, and this is a great thing. They aren’t going to tolerate you consistently complaining without making change, judging without checking yourself, or worrying without cause.
When you are with your real twin flame, you will look back and realize that you identified a lot of their traits and characteristics in your former partner.
Self-love often works from the outside in. Rather than deciding we love ourselves one day, if we can become less and less critical of other people’s behaviors and choices, we learn how to be more accepting of our own.
Healing is not an event, it is a process, and in most cases, it is a process of learning how to let emotions pass without getting stuck.
Spirituality is the willingness to control what we can – ourselves.
People will judge you for wanting to be better because it shines a light on the parts of themselves they’re waiting for someone else to fix.
When you start really thinking about what you do control, you start to realize that the circumstances aren’t the question. The question is: what are you going to do now?
You don’t have to be everything, all the time. You don’t have to do anything perfectly.