You start to align not with needing to be fixed but with already being fixed.
People who self-sabotage can’t tell the difference between comfort and happiness.
If you aren’t open to new possibilities, you will close yourself off to a lot of the latent potential you already possess.
You have to allow them to grow for themselves, be uncomfortable on their own, and figure it out autonomously. Nothing else will work.
Fluid intelligence is the opposite of crystallized intelligence, which is what it means to have acquired knowledge formally, and typically refers to the acquisition of specific information, like facts and figures.
The things we struggle with the most are the things we are here to master. The triggers are the guides.
When you’re with someone who operates with quieter mental and emotional warfare, you end up stuck without even understanding how you got there.
Sometimes, our feelings can betray us, and we can end up treating a teacher like a soulmate.
You spend more of your time worrying, ruminating and focusing on what you hope doesn’t happen than you do imagining, strategizing and planning for what you do.
Human behaviors are not random, and they are only confusing until you understand what’s driving them.