Here’s Why You’re Not In Love (Yet), Based On Your Zodiac Sign



(March 21st to April 19th)

You’re still on your own because you’re too impulsive. You change your mind every other day and that makes it difficult for people to keep up with you. You have no problem making the first move, but after that dating isn’t really on your radar.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You know what you want and you’re not ready to settle for less than that. You have a type and you’re just waiting for the right guy who matches exactly that. You shouldn’t have to change either because the right guy will come.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You’ve convinced yourself that you’re not ready to be loved yet. You think you’re either too young or your time has passed when that’s not the case at all. You’ve just pushed love away for so long that you’re unsure you’ll be able to find someone, but you will. When it’s the right time for you that person will love you no matter if you feel ready or not.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You keep romanticizing the past and you shouldn’t. It wasn’t as wonderful as you’re remembering it to be and you can’t move forward with your life if you’re still thinking about how good things used to be. Let the past go and move forward with your life. It’s the only way you’ll be able to find new happiness and love in the present.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Ditch your online dating apps, you’re so much more appealing in person than the persona you try to show off to people. You haven’t found love yet because you’re always trying to cover and hide parts of you but those parts are the things people love. Show the world who you really are and you’ll find someone who loves you for that.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You haven’t found love yet because you’re too superficial. You want someone who meets all these insanely high expectations on your list and it’s not possible. People are real – they have flaws and problems. You shouldn’t lower your standards, but instead, make them more realistic and obtainable.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You feel like you don’t deserve love, like you’re unlovable for some reason that you’ve tried to bury. Maybe it’s something that happened with a past relationship or your own personal demons you have let pick away at you. Despite whatever it is, you are lovable, you just need to accept yourself first in order to find love.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You are the over thinker that kills everything good in your mind. Things could be going great with the person you just met but all the sudden your alone and your mind starts to linger, creating all these bizarre scenarios. It leads you to convince yourself you’re going to be forever alone and that love isn’t meant for you. That’s not true. Sometimes you just have to be open and give love a chance.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You’re scared you’ll get bored with one person for the rest of your life. You fear you will get too far into the relationship that it will trap you and you won’t be able to leave. You’re scared because you don’t want to wake up one morning and feel like this is as good as it gets when you’re not happy.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You completely avoid love by diving head first into some other aspect of your life. Maybe this month it’s your career, next month it’s your friend’s wedding, maybe the following month it’s working towards a promotion. It’s always something and you focus so much on everything and everyone else to avoid the fact that you’re alone. Take some time for you, seriously. You need to remember you matter and your love life matters too.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You have become so comfortable alone that you’re scared to be with someone because the thought of having someone then suddenly not having them is scarier than being alone. Love isn’t meant to drain you, strip you of your freedom or neglect you from your alone time. Once you change your mindset you will see that love isn’t that bad and you will find someone who can prove that to you.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You are a big lover and since you haven’t found love yet you’re spending all your time and energy into loving your friends and family. It’s okay to take some time to yourself and remember that you matter along with your happiness. You will find someone who has as big of a heart as you do once you start being a little more selfish and spend some time on self-love. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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