Date The Guy Who Loves You Like He’s Going To Lose You

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Date someone who makes you feel like the world finally makes sense, someone who makes you feel like you’re home, someone who makes you understand why it didn’t work out with anyone else, someone who makes all the previous heart breaks not seem so bad or feel so painful.

Date someone who is afraid to lose you and treats you like he’s still trying to win over your heart everyday, because he should be.

You deserve someone who is going to love you like he’s going to lose you.

You deserve someone who is going to smile when he opens his eyes and you’re the first person he sees. You deserve someone who is going to make you feel like you’re the luckiest girl in the world. You deserve someone who is never going to stop treating you like a priority.

You shouldn’t ever date someone who puts you on the backburner. You shouldn’t date the guy who makes you an after thought or keeps you hanging around with no intentions of loving you forever.

You deserve so much more than that.

You should date the person who loves you every single day with a light of hope in his eyes because with you things don’t seem so dark and scary; because things with you things seem safer and more fulfilling; because things with you just make sense.

He shouldn’t ever stop doing the little things; he shouldn’t ever stop giving you his whole heart and loving you completely.

But you shouldn’t stop doing those things in return, either.

You can’t expect to take without ever giving; you need to love him like you’re going to lose him as well.

Love is a balance, it’s an agreement to work towards growing together every day. As much as you deserve to have him love you like he’s going to lose you, you should also love him like you’re going to lose him, too.

When you love like you’re going to lose someone then you never will because you’ll always be loving as hard as you can. You’ll never make him question your love for him and things will never get comfortable.

So, you should date someone who makes you feel better on your bad days, someone who makes you smile through the tears and someone who comforts you after a long, hard fight because at the end of the day you know you need each other.

You should date the guy who loves you like he’s going to lose you because once you love someone like that they’ll never leave, they’ll never be unsatisfied and they’ll always feel secure.

Date the guy who’s going to love you like he’ll lose you and give him that love in return. TC mark

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You look back and you just feel stupid.
You can’t forgive yourself for falling
or believing all the lies.
You reread every text.
You relive every memory.
And it all starts making sense —
he never wanted love.
He only wanted attention.
He only wanted validation.

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