As young women in America, we are brought up with one major objective: finding the best possible guy for us so we can eventually settle down.
“You’re too skinny.”
Translation: I wish I was that skinny.
You say: Ugh I know. I try to put on weight by eating lots of pizza and chocolate cake, but no luck.
The friends I had are still the friends I’d have again if I could do it all over.
What these people don’t understand is the psychological difference between outsiders and victims.
Perseverance is failing nineteen times and succeeding the twentieth.
They can be very expensive. There are entrance fees, wardrobe costs, professional head shots, physical training, interview coaching, hair and makeup services, travel and hotel accommodations, etc.
“There are no labels.”
There are many more games men and women play, but these are of the more common ones. Carefully take a look at your relationship and try to find hints of any of these happening. You might be surprised.