Apparently being ugly, despite the word referring specifically to physical appearance only, also means being a stupid, yawn-inducing, unimpressive, self-deprecating repulsive loser who should be avoided at all costs.
There’s just something so dreamy about that safe sanctuary you create when you are in a relationship. I mean, how hard could it be right? Just you, me and a whole lot of love and affection to go around.
Understand that not all battles can be won. Some battles are worth fighting for, more so than others. Some battles leave you tired and world-weary. Pick your battles. And pick them well.