If you do not have the experiences to know what you don’t want, you won’t be able to define what you do want.
Relax. Stop pushing yourself, and feel awe for everything that already is. Just be.
Your desires are yours to create. The circumstances for how those creations come into your life are the workings of the universe. Do not worry about them. Instead, think only of your intended end result, because that is what you’ll experience.
By changing our own beliefs about why and how things work out – because of intent rather than blind luck – we transform ourselves from victims to conscious creators.
I’ve often asked my friends the question: “what would you do if you could do anything, money no option?”
I was never a heavy Facebook user, though. I’d check it daily, but I wasn’t proactive about it. I didn’t seek people out, I didn’t stalk my exes, and I rarely posted status updates or new photo albums.
A long time ago I read something that said our hearts seek out those who need it most. I believed it for a long and used it as an explanation for why I was always falling for broken people with addictions or self-neglect or egocentric attitudes.
What are you being paid for your freedom? Is it worth it? Does it even make a difference?
When you’re meeting someone for the first and only time, you don’t have to worry about how you present yourself. Cracks don’t show through in memory. There’s no reason to prove anything, and there’s no future to worry about. Because it’s the only time, you can’t take it for granted.
It is said that people with big minds talk about ideas, people with average minds talk about events, and those with small minds talk about others.