I Thought My Boyfriend And I Were Having Fun Threesomes, Until I Found Out He Was Pimping Me Out To Guys He Found On Craigslist

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I feel so stupid and disgusted right now.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, we met right after I graduated high school and he was 20 at the time. I was just starting community college and was proud to have my own apartment for the first time ever (I have also worked around 30 hours a week since starting college so I support myself). He was older than me, but struggling. I guess prior to meeting me he had been pretty into drugs, but I have never seen him do them so I really believed that was all over. And he was cute and sweet and I was kind of lonely, most of my friends having moved much farther away for college.

Anyways, we got together and he moved in with me shortly after because he was always struggling with money despite having a pretty good job at a landscaping place. Plus, it was fun to play house and have someone to come home to after all my LONG days going to classes and then working.

We had a really great sex life. Well, I thought it was great. We were both kind of kinky and after about six months we decided to try a threesome with two guys. It was really hot. I loved having two guys give me all their attention, it made me feel wanted and sexy. Our sex life was better just the two of us afterwards so we ended up doing this once or twice a month until now.

My boyfriend would always find the guy “through friends” which never felt suspicious because, why would it be? We just hung out and I could have stopped if I didn’t like the guy. I trusted my boyfriend and I never felt unsafe.

This came crashing down the other night.

I should tell you that sometimes my boyfriend’s “fantasy” changes where he’ll start to hang out with me and the other guy like normal, but then he just wants to watch while we fuck. Okay, sure. But sometimes he even goes home and wants me to spend the night at the guys house which is kind of weird, but still, I thought it was just kink. Well, this happened the other night and my boyfriend went home and I slept with the guy and it was really good. We ended up having a great connection. So much so that we spent most of the night talking in bed.

This guy says “I know you don’t like to talk about this, but I just want to say this wasn’t weird at all and I think you’re a really cool person.”

“What?”

“Oh sorry, your boyfriend said it turns you off to talk about this, I just wanted to give you a compliment.”

“What are you talking about?”

Silence.

I knew something was very wrong here. I had certainly talked to my boyfriend about my turn-offs but they were along the likes of potty play… nothing about conversation topics. I felt sick. Something was up. In hindsight, I wish I would have just gotten over it and left it alone. But I did what all women do, I pried. It turns out he didn’t know my boyfriend through mutual friends. They had never even met before that night. Only emailed. BECAUSE MY BOYFRIEND PUT AN AD FOR ME ON CRAIGSLIST.

Yup.

This hookup (and god only knows how many of the others) was a result of him putting an ad on craigslist for men to PAY MONEY to have a threesome or just straight sex with me. And he only paid my boyfriend $100 for me.

Needless to say I left that guys house immediately. I’m still completely sick to my stomach. I couldn’t even yell at him, I was just in shock. I didn’t go home though, I couldn’t face my boyfriend. I texted him that my grandma was in the hospital and I was going to go to my parents house (in the same town as my apartment) and then travel with them to visit her three hours away for the next few days. But really, I’m just at my parents house, in the room I grew up in, trying to digest what has happened. I’m not even drinking age yet and I’m apparently a prostitute? And my boyfriend is a pimp? How could he do something so cruel and callous to someone he loves? How do I tell people what happened?

I wish I could never go back to my apartment. I have to go work at my restaurant job and hope that he doesn’t randomly come in and see that I’m not actually out of town until I can figure out how to deal with this situation. I wonder if I can take legal action against him, you can’t just pimp someone without their knowledge or consent, can you? He violated me. I have no idea how I will ever trust anyone again. I can’t even think about it. I can’t think about anything. TC mark

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