3. Make the first moves.

Just recently I met the man of my dreams and while he was saying goodbye and I said, “Wait, aren’t you going to ask for my number?” He knew I enjoyed his company by me saying this and he took down my number and not even ten minutes later he had texted me to ask me out on a date. Waiting for the guy to make the first move is overrated, men like it when you make the first move because most of them don’t have the balls to do it anyway. Furthermore, the current man of my dreams told me that he makes the girls come to him, thus, if I didn’t make the move- I would not be as happy as I am now. Don’t be afraid to ask to hang out first, but don’t be persistent after that… if a guy wants to see you, he will find a way to see you.

4. Do not talk about your future together.

If you want to scare a guy away quickly, go ahead and talk about tying the knot, how many babies you want to have, and all your life plans with your future significant other. I repeat DO NOT talk about the future unless he asks, males get freaked out by thinking that you might be the one vagina their penis will ever encounter, for the rest of their lives. If he asks about future plans, he likes you and you have succeeded.