Things That Make You A Slut Vs. Things That Don’t Make You A Slut

You are a Slut:

  1. You hook up with a man you don’t know because you are hoping that he’ll want to see you again and it will eventually lead to a relationship.
  2. You have sex with a man who only wants to have sex with you, but you want more than sex from him.
  3. You feel guilty after having sex.
  4. You think that if you just give him a good blowjob, how could he possibly not want more, and eventually you can build a relationship with him.
  5. You look at people in good relationships and are unsure how they are so lucky to be in one, and acknowledge right away that they are better than you.
  6. Getting a hot guy to sleep with you makes you feel accomplished, but then you are confused and hurt as to why he doesn’t want to be with you yet he swoons over other, less attractive girls.
  7. If a man does not want to have sex with you, it is your fault and you are unattractive.

You are not a Slut:

  1. You have sex with a man because you want to have sex with him.
  2. You may have had sex with many men, because you wanted to have sex with each of those men.
  3. You can tell the difference between when a man wants to have sex with you and if a man wants more than sex from you, and you keep yourself on the same page as him.
  4. If a man does not want to have sex with you, they are fucked in the head ‘cause you are hot as hell.
  5. You know that you deserve to be loved, you are independent, and you don’t need anyone to love you because you love yourself first. TC mark

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    Personally, I think the term slut should only be thrown around when insulting someone, not describing a set of people that actually want decent things. Is it really so bad that you sleep with someone first in order to make them attracted to you? People can graduate from that, I think. If not, that’s just unfortunate. I think a real “slut” is someone who just really likes sex a lot. Like a nymphomaniac.

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