What if we didn’t have to work our way up the ladder or get more likes on social media or have the newest product advertised?
People are often scared of the word BDSM — but that’s just the stigma of giving into your desires.
I felt like I was dying. And it wasn’t until I changed everything I was brought up to believe that suddenly I began to feel like I was finally living.
This has helped me to lose all expectations of my relationships with other people — people I work with, my friends, my lovers. Not in a way where I don’t have needs that have to be met, but where I’ve come to realize that different people will meet my needs in different ways.
If I were you right now, I’d be wondering why the hell I stayed for two years. But just like every relationship out there, there were both good and bad parts.
I never set out to break the girl code, but my habits won over my morals and with every drink, my inhibitions loosened.