So today, I am choosing to focus on the possibilities and embracing the uncertainty of my future and that makes me a lot more excited for it.
Naturally if you miss out on something that you didn’t want to miss out on, you are going to suffer from some social angst to some degree.
It wasn’t working. I love him, and always will, but I am not in love with him. We both tried extremely hard to make it happen again, but somethings just can’t be forced, for whatever reason. It wasn’t him, it was me.
Comparing ourselves to others is something we all do at some point, whether we admit it or not. It’s a natural mental process. Labeling, however, is a different story.
It felt unfair – why did I have to lose him as both my boyfriend and my best friend?
Regardless of the which uncomfortable emotions we are faced with, it is so important to learn how to simply just sit with that feeling until it passes.