There’s no harm in sharing your life with another person. However there should still be a space for personal growth. Being too immersed in the comfort zone is inevitably unhealthy.
Prioritizing yourself is a selfless act. You do not have to feel guilty about it. Being alone allows you to do some reflection. It helps you re-evaluate your relationship with others and your goals in life.
I forgive you for all of the times you broke your promises. I forgive you for all of the hurt you have caused me. I forgive because that is the only way for me to move forward.
Don’t stay for the sake of love. I know it is easier said than done and you’re still probably madly in love with them. But remember, love can drive one insane. Love makes people do ridiculous things.
So don’t be despair when you think your prayers were not answered. He heard your cries and he will answer your prayers in his own time and in the most beautiful ways.
When the new love arrives, embrace it slowly. Don’t be too eager to expose everything. And never lose yourself along the way. Loving someone is a journey, not a destination.