1. If you don’t want to go down on him until your jaw gets sore, the key is getting him as hard as you possibly can before putting your lips against his cock. So try giving him a hand job first or straddling him and grinding while you make out.

2. You can also try grabbing his hand and sucking on one of his fingers. Make him think about how good it’s going to feel once you unzip his jeans and press your lips against his skin.

3. Or, if you’re in public, you could tease him by texting him about how you’re going to suck his cock the second that you get home. You can even start running your hands over his bulge in the car, so that he’s ready to go once you walk through the door.

4. When it’s actually time to work your magic, start by kissing his stomach, his legs, his thighs. Kiss all around his cock until you see it twitch.

5. Then, once you’re ready to end the teasing, you can move on to kissing his cock. Don’t feel bad about leaving wet, sloppy kisses. The more saliva, the better.

6. Now it’s time run your tongue across his shaft, from the base to the head, to get it even wetter. Make movements that are nice and slow. Put on a real show for him.

7. Then it’s finally time to put your lips around him. Start by taking in just the head, then take in a little bit more, and then a little bit more until you’ve reached your limit.

8. If you can’t deep throat (and really, who can?) then use your hands along with your mouth. Just make sure that they’re both moving in the same direction with the same rhythm. Otherwise, it’ll feel bizarre for him.

9. You should also make sure to twist your wrist as you move along his shaft instead of just going up and down. If you can twist your head a bit too, that’s even better!

1o. Whenever your mouth needs a rest, stick to using your hands and take the time to talk dirty to him. Tell him how much you love feeling his cock harden in your mouth and how you can’t wait to swallow his cum.

11. Don’t forget to look up at him as you’re sucking him. The more he loves you, the crazier the eye contact will make him.

12. If you need to rest your jaw again, let go of his dick to remove your shirt and jeans, so he has a nice view. He certainly won’t mind the intermission.

13. If you can multitask, play with your tits or your clit with your free hand. Give him something sexy to watch.

14. Even better, move into a position that’ll allow him to touch your pussy. That way, you’ll be able to get off while he gets off.

15. Of course, you could always 69. The only thing that feels better than his hands against your clit is his tongue.

16. Get a little rough. You don’t want to dig your teeth into his shaft, but you can always dig your nails into his thighs.

17. Fondle his balls or play with his ass–with permission. Every guy is different. Some will get turned on by those moves, and some will immediately get turned off.

18. Moan while his dick is still in your mouth. Show him that you love sucking his cock as much as he loves getting it sucked.

19. Don’t forget to use your tongue. Move it up and down. Swirl it left and right. Run it all around his cock.

20. If you want to make him cum harder than he ever has before, then stop touching him when it looks like he’s about to finish. Give him a few seconds to cool down and then go back to doing what you were doing. It’s delayed gratification at its finest.

21. In your most seductive voice, ask him where he wants to cum. Or, if you’re worried about his answer, just tell him how badly you want him to cum in your mouth or on your tits or on your face.

22. Don’t stop as soon as he starts to orgasm. Keep going until he’s officially finished. And when he’s done, squeeze out the last drops of semen and lap them up with your tongue.

23. If you have trouble making him orgasm, and can’t take the aching in your jaw anymore, then instead of admitting defeat, climb on top of him to fuck him. Act like the blowjob was just foreplay and that you’re finally ready for the real deal.